Friendship

i hope this is useful for all people to grow their thinking about real friends esp. special friends


Purpose : make people thinking

Has a good relation with others is everybody’s dream. The relation can be trade relation, blood relation, diplomatic relation, price relation, legal relation, cultural relation, industrial relation, labor relation, and etc. But the worthest relation after kinship is friendship. Everybody of course has a lot of friends, but among all of that friends there are special friends. People who have special friends consider their special friends as important people who can share everything, not only happiness but also sadness. There are two characteristics which can describe special friends in friendship.

Firstly, integrity is really needed in friendship. People of integrity exactly valued their relation. Why? Because In people’s word they have their dignity. There is an advice, if you have friends but he/she has spoken untrue to you more than three times. So, it is clear, he/she is not considered as special friends. Still consider him/her as your friends but just your ordinary friends. Never make boundary between you and him/her. But, never believe them to keep your secrets. If he/she do something excessiveness, for example he/she always tell you a lie (hypocrital). It means he/she is a BIG GREAT LIAR. Always remember HONESTY IS WORTH MORE THAN HYPOCRISY.

Secondly, belief is important to tie relation with others. If your friends can not believe you, it’s ok. But there is said, WHEREVER ACTION, THERE IS REACTION. If your friends can not believe you so never believe them. If your friends can not believe you, it means they are not your special friends. Belief is not mean share their all secret to you. No, not of course, their secrets are their privacy. If they have said to you, “Ah.. you always want to know the other secrets.” But you just want to know because you are consider them as your special friends. So, since that time you must aware that God shows to you he/she is not your special friends. Why? Because they are not understand your behavior. All people were created equal. If you have seen they do something like what they accuse to you. HAHAHA, JUST LAUGH and go away from them because they even not much better than you.

All in all, there are two characteristics which can describe special friends in friendship, there are integrity and belief. Find your special friends and hope your relation will not stained with hypocrital,liar, and bad habit like accuse the others without thinking.

Ketika cinta itu hadir

CINTA

Semua orang tentu tau apa itu cinta
Semua orang pernah merasakannya
Tapi, apakah semua orang dapat mendeskripsikannya?
Nope,

Tidak semua orang dapat mendeskripsikan apa itu cinta
Why?
Cinta yang hadir itu tidak sama
Cinta yang dirasakan orang itu berbeda-beda

Bagaimana rasanya ketika seseorang sedang JATUH CINTA
Tentu sangat menyenangkan tetapi sekaligus menyiksa
Why?
Rasa itu begitu menyenangkan ketika seseorang yang kita cintai juga mencintai kita.
Bagaimana rasanya jika orang yang kita cintai tidak menunjukkan apakah ia juga mencintai kita atau tidak.
Tentu rasanya tidak enak bukan?








Lihat gambar yang ada di atas.
Apakah Anda tahu gambar apa itu?
Itu adalah gambar hati, gambar yang melukiskan perasaan cinta.










Tapi lihat gambar ini, gambar apakah ini?
Apabila Anda hanya melihat sekilas tentu Anda akan mengira bahwa itu adalah sekedar tulisan.
Tapi tahukah Anda?
Tulisan yang terlihat biasa itu maknanya sama dengan gambar cinta yang saya pampang di atasnya.

Maksudnya, untuk melukiskan cinta tidak harus dengan menggunakan lambang 'love' tapi juga bisa menggunakan media(lambang) lain yang kita anggap sama spesialnya dengan gambar love.
Atau bisa juga secara langsung.

Seperti sebuah lirik lagu yang bermakna untuk saya
Say you love me....
You know that it could be nice.



Cinta itu tak harus memiliki
Banyak ungkapan-ungkapan seperti itu, bahkan ada lirik lagu yang menggunakan kalimat itu.
Tapi, apakah memang seperti seharusnya?
Saya tidak dapat memberikan jawaban yang pasti.
Banyak orang yang mengakui kebenaran kalimat tersebut, tetapi saya tidak

Bagi saya, mencintai berarti harus memiliki.
Mungkin terkesan egois, tapi apabila Anda berada dalam posisi saya (maaf saya tidak dapat menceritakannya) tentu Anda akan setuju dengan statement saya.
Mungkin lirik lagu ini yang melukiskan keadaan saya

Aku yg memikirkn namun aku tak banyak berharap

engkau membuat waktuku tersita dengan angan tentangmu

mencobaa lupakaan
tapiku tak bisaaa
MENGAPA BEGINI?

Oh...
Mungkin aku bermimpi menginginkan dirimu untuk ada disini menemanikuu..


Oh..
Mungkinkah kau yang jadi kekasih sejatikuu



Semoga tak sekedar harapkuuu






Sekian. (: